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Elegant evenings.
Open minds.
Complete discretion.
A refined newsletter and events guide for couples and singles in the UK swinging community. Features, etiquette, venue news and events, delivered privately to your inbox.
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Lifestyle journalism written with warmth and good taste, from first conversations to finding the right venue.
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The guide
Your introduction to the lifestyle
Clear, non-judgemental guidance for the curious and the experienced alike.
What is swinging?
A calm, clear introduction to the lifestyle, the language people use and the different ways couples choose to take part.
Read the guideGetting started as a couple
How to talk it through, agree your boundaries and take relaxed, sensible first steps together.
Read the guideEtiquette and consent
No means no, respect comes first and discretion is everything. The unwritten rules, written down.
Read the guideClubs, parties and events
The different kinds of venue, what to wear and what really happens on a typical night out.
Read the guideStaying safe
Sexual health, protecting your privacy, meeting new people sensibly and the red flags worth knowing.
Read the guideSingle men and single women
How singles fit into the lifestyle, why some nights are restricted and how to be a welcome guest.
Read the guideFrequently asked questions
Straight answers to the questions newcomers ask most often.
Read the guideVenue directory
Find clubs and venues across the UK
Search lifestyle clubs, spas and party organisers by name, town, region and facilities, compiled from public information.
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